3.25.2011

(Friday) Favorites

here are some of my favorite things from this past week.
I had a really great week so I am really happy to share.

 

friday favorite things | finding joy

 

sleeping in.

having a husband who is willing to take Benjamin to work for the morning while I sleep in.

getting up to do the dishes to find they have already been done.

a wonderful husband who cleans the dishes for me, unexpectedly.

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cheerful tulips outside the screened-in porch.

peaceful mornings.

laughing hard and loud with Blythe.

Fringe.

Sonic vanilla cherry cokes, and getting them unexpectedly from that sweet husband of mine.

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playing

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sunshine.

my sweet boy who has such a joyful spirit.

nighttime prayers with my husband.

studying the book of Esther.

Bible quiz with Benjamin, and listening to him answer correctly!

Benjamin singing “Clarity” by John Mayer … over and over… oh I just love it!

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blue eyes.

making awesome blackberry cobbler for the young adult devo

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and not having any left afterward

{because that means they loved it!}

mom calling at 9PM to talk because she’s bored.

packing suitcases for the MSOP lectureship,

and looking forward to seeing friends again, and family!

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making shadows,

finding lizards outside,

and just loving each other.

this week has been so blessed!

A Super Long CD Post

I know this is late in coming, but we got a little busy just recently and I am currently taking a break from packing for a week away at the MSOP Lectureship. So I figured I may as well do the post I had promised about the different types of diapers, and I am sorry it has taken me so long to do it. If you’re just now finding out that we cloth diaper, here’s a post I did recently on how it’s going for us 23 months after we started.

Anyway, a while back I took some photos of nearly all of our cloth diapers, so I’ll include those in this post as I talk about the different types we use and what we like about them or what we don’t like about them. There are certainly pros and cons to each diaper and not every diaper works as well for every child. It’s been a sort of trial and error for us but we have really enjoyed this cloth diapering journey.

The Stash.

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This is nearly all of our diapers, and as you can see, we have tried out a few different types of diapers. We have tried hybrids {gDiapers}, pockets {bumGenius and Happy Heinys}, and prefolds + wraps {Thirsties}.

gDiapers.

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We’ll start out with the one we use least often. It’s a hybrid diaper because you have the option of using a flushable insert {which is, if I am correct, biodegradable}, or using cloth inserts, which we opt for. You stick a little insert into the bottom of the diaper, the little plastic… hammock or whatever you want to call it, and close it up. As you can see, the little hammock has snaps so you can actually pull that out and replace it and continue using the same shell. That’s pretty nifty. Also one thing I like about this diaper is the fact that it velcros around the back instead of the front so it’s harder for Mr. Benjamin to pull off when he is “napping”. It’s a really trim diaper, so it doesn’t make Benjamin look like he inherited my backside. HA! I don’t really know why we don’t use this one much, but it’s probably because the other diapers are usually already stuffed and we just go for that.

Pros: Trim fit, velcro around back, removable hammock thinger, option of using flushable inserts if desired.
Cons: The wetness just sits on the little bottom as the insert is just right there, it’s in the back of the drawer and who wants to dig that far?, not one-size

The bumGenius.

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We frequently use bumGenius during the day. It’s a one-size diaper, which means you can snap it down or unsnap it depending on how big your baby is. We actually used bumGenius first before anything else because we found two diapers on clearance at Target and on a whim decided to buy them. This yellow one is the first one Benjamin ever wore:

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As you can see, the diaper was snapped all the way down for his age at 3 months. He wears the same diaper these days unsnapped all the way.

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Anyway, bumGenius has been great for us. Most of our bumGenius diapers were hand-me-downs and thus not in the best condition, as most of the leg gussets had been let out {I still need to go through and sew new elastic into them… sigh…}, and so in the early days it would be easier for mess to come out of the sides… however, I will say that we had a lot less blowouts using cloth than we did using disposable. The bumGenius diapers seem to leak more easily than the others, however, but it’s still a good diaper if you’re looking for a pocket diaper. The only thing about pocket diapers is that you can’t re-use the shell. When you change the diaper, you have to change the whole thing, which makes this a more expensive option. Basically you stick an insert down in the pocket and then when you change it, you pull the insert out and wash them both together.

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Pros: Grows with baby, trim-ish fit, durable, comes in an array of colors.
Cons: Not a reusable shell, leaks easier if on a heavy wetter, you gotta pull a yucky insert out {which you get used to} before washing.

The Thirsties Duo Wrap.

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Thirsties Duo Wraps are Hubby’s diaper of choice. Most of the time when he changes Benjamin, he will end up choosing the thirsties. It’s a good diaper! I usually tell people that this is the most economical choice out there because you can get by with a handful of wraps and like 16 prefolds and be set! Seriously! A lot of people are intimidated by prefolds because they think you need to use pins or something of the sort with them, but you don’t, really! Here’s a little tutorial for you on how we use prefolds and wraps:

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Totally easy! This diaper has the advantage of being a shell, which means as we have said before, you can use the same shell over and over and just change out the prefold. We do this unless it gets real messy, you know what I mean. This is also, as you can see, a one-size diaper, and you can also see that the leg gussets are doubly enforced and I love this. We hardly ever have leaks with these diapers.

Pros: one-size, economical, hardly any leaks, reusable shell, bright colors.
Cons: makes the kiddo’s badonkadonk HUGE!!

The Happy Heinys.

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We got this diaper for Benjamin’s 6 month birthday. He loves his cow diaper. Basically it is the same as the bumGenius diapers as it is also a pocket diaper, but the opening for the insert is wider so it’s easier to pull it out.

Pros: one-size, cute prints, great velcro, wide opening, trim fit
Cons: leaks some if he’s really wetting heavy.

So anyway.

Those are our diapers and my reviews of them. If you have any more questions, let me know and I’ll do my best to answer them! If you have any recommendations for us, let me know too! Hopefully we won’t be in diapers for much longer but I do want to cloth diaper any other children the Lord may bless us with!

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3.22.2011

Overprotective, or protective enough?

Do you know what phrase literally makes me cringe when I hear it? “Boys will be boys”. I hear it a lot and to some degree I do agree with it. Boys will be boys and should be allowed to be boys – to a point. A lot of the time when I hear this phrase it’s in reference to the fact that Benjamin is prone to getting himself hurt on different occasions as he plays. Small bumps and bruises are natural for him because he plays in such a way that he collects them, little by little, over time. Now, I don’t want anyone to go away from this thinking that Benjamin jumps off of our roof or off of tables or swings from the chandelier. He doesn’t. But he does often run and fall and collects his bruises that way.

But there is a point where ‘boys being boys’ does make me cringe, and I hope I’m not labeled as a ‘bad’ or ‘overprotective’ parent because of it. I know there are a lot of times ‘boys being boys’ refers to the fact that boys will beat up on each other. I don’t think wrestling around is bad, just in a playful manner, but I do think there is a line… and that line should be identified and more importantly enforced.

I recently went to a visitation where a collection of boys were beating the daylights out of each other in their ‘game of tag’. I mean, not a pat to say tag that might have been more of a ‘slap’ than a pat. They were literally beating each other. I was mortified. How could children think that that sort of behavior is acceptable in any situation, but especially at a funeral home? I stepped in and told them that they needed to stop (because their parents were not attending to them), because they were doing this in front of Benjamin and I did not want him going away from that thinking that it was an acceptable way to play with one another.

Boys can be boys … but any boy of mine must be respectful of those around him. I don’t want Benjamin to be a bully, I want him to be a gentleman, even now when he is two years old. I don’t want him to think that pushing and hitting are forms of play.

Is that overprotective of me? I’m asking this seriously. I have been told plenty of times that I can’t shelter Benjamin forever, and I certainly don’t want to be a helicopter mom, but Benjamin’s behavior at this point is my responsibility. It is going to shape much of his behavior later in life and I just don’t want to mess up early and have to fix mistakes later on.

I am honestly posting this for YOUR input. Please, mothers of boys or even mothers of girls, if you have any advice for me or input, please give it to me. I think daily about my responsibility as a parent and it so often overwhelms me and humbles me.

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One day he’s going to leave my house,
and I just want him to go away faithful,
and I want him to respect and love others.

Project 365; Week Four

Before we get into my pictures from last week, I wanted to invite everyone to an Online Pampered Chef Party that I am hosting. It ends March 31st, so if you’re interested, hop on over there and see what you can find! Here are a couple helpful hints:

- Come check out some Pampered Chef products!http://www.pamperedchef.biz/autumnmcbrayer?page=2ways-order-products Go there and type in "Kristen Jenkins" and start shopping! :D
- Spend $60 and get a free gift!
- Book a March show off of Kristen's show and get 60% off one of the brand new Items in the new Spring/Summer products!
- Interested in selling Pampered Chef? This month if you sign up you have the chance to receive 1/2 the money back that you put into your kit! Send me a message if you are interested!

For more information, check out the facebook page for the event!

 

ANYWAY – On to the main event, the pictures!!

Day 22. 3/13/2011 – This was just a random moment during the day when I had my camera nearby and snapped the picture. Sweet shot, oh yeah!

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Day 23. 3/14/2011 – Benjamin was sitting on the porch and I couldn’t resist a shot of his sweet feet!

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Day 24. 3/15/2011 – Playing with his play-dough outside on the deck.

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Day 25. 3/16/2011 – He said he was drawing a girl.

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Day 26. 3/17/2011 – I just love these cheerful tulips!

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Day 27. 3/18/2011 – Benjamin pointed this out to me so I took a picture. I love the soft colors and the brightness of the moon. This was not the supermoon.

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Day 28. 3/19/2011 – This, however, was the supermoon. I went a little crazy with the camera there…

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NapTime MomTog Project 365

3.19.2011

Paper Mama Photo Challenge: Green

Green is sometimes Benjamin’s favorite color.
When it isn’t blue or orange.
This picture was taken today at his bff’s birthday party. He loves balloons, and bubbles, and sunshine.

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He’s cute.
I love spring.

 

The Paper Mama

3.18.2011

(Friday) Favorites

I decided to join in with the lovely ladies Rachel and her daughter Hannah by posting about my favorite things that I am thinking of this Friday. Won’t you join in?

Here are my (Friday) Favorite Things:

{My Boys}

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being content,
learning,
growing,
loving.

{The Springtime}

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the bright colors,
new life,
warm sunshine,
fragrant flowers,

playing outside.

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{Giggles}

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playing,
exploring,
expressing,
joyfulness.

{Peace}

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{Patience}

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prayer.

God’s love and patience toward us.
A thoughtful husband who prays with me and loves me.
A sweet boy who is learning and growing.
My long-distance family.
My wonderful friends.

Love, peace, joy, hope.

All favorites.



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3.15.2011

Project 365; Week Three

Here’s  my roundup of all of last week’s photos!

Day 15: 3/6/2011 – These things are so awesome. Mini Reese’s Cups.

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Day 16: 3/7/2011 – Benjamin loves this book about God waking up the earth in the morning. He looks so cozy in my favorite chair!

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Day 17: 3/8/2011 – Ridin’ and swingin’ that camera around!

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Day 18: 3/9/2011 – Benjamin loves his ABC game. He amazes me with all that he knows. I never thought that my two-year-old might know all of his [uppercase] letters so well. He can identify them all and he loves to ‘read’ whenever he sees words. We are now working on lowercase! He’s doing pretty well with that, too!

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Day 19: 3/10/2011 – He looks so long-legged in this photo. He has gotten so much taller in the past couple of months. It’s surprising!

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Day 20: 3/11/2011 – Sparkly pink sponge: $1. It didn’t last too long but hey, it was one of three for $1. Also, I hadn’t taken a picture this day so it was a last minute thing… haha!

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Day 21: 3/12/2011 – Benjamin loves to build towers and houses with his blocks.

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